Tuesday, September 30, 2008

Tell Us Apart Now...

THEN...


AND

NOW.
Noah: no hair...Lincoln: long hair (Patrick calls this "alliteration").

The boys came home telling me the teacher didn't know who they were ALL day and that they want their old haircuts back. You got it!

Monday, September 29, 2008

Monday, September 22, 2008

Happy Birthday Willie and Rach


May the whole week be filled with celebration...We love you more than blogging could ever say.

Thursday, September 18, 2008

Heartwrenching,beyond words.. Must go to this Blog

http://sccsdecker.blogspot.com/

I am sure many of you have seen this blog from Cjanes blog, if not you must go there. I have no words right now for what people are enduring....

Wednesday, September 17, 2008

Rach, You are Way To Sweet!










Love you Rach! These had to be about the yummiest treat, my favorite. They are the absolute cutest little cakes I have ever seen. You made my day! How fun to receive an unexpected gift in the mail. And I was trying to eat good, but that went quickly out the door when I opened these lovely things up. If anyone wants to spoil someone, go to DRAGONFLYCAKES.COM. Thanks again Rach I was like a little child getting a birthday gift.....

My Love Of Kids









Saturday, September 13, 2008

Outing with Grandma and Cousins


While the boys were in Utah for two weeks this past summer they were entertained every possible minute. One of their favorite outings was attending the Air force Base in Utah. Thank you again Grandma and Grandpa Hall, Jackmans, Greg and Bekah, Aunt Melanie and Grandma Carter. I don't ever want to leave anyone out for all they did for the boys while they were there. They still continue to talk about how great their stay was, and how much they miss you all.

Happy Birthday Greg....

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Thursday, September 11, 2008

I HATE SHINGLES!!!

Receiving Laser Treatment to the head hoping it can beam it away. Crazy! I know, but supposedly it works. Oh please oh please.


A lesson to to be learned from Natalie..... Everyone take care of your body!


I stress to much and never sleep, or have never been good about Dr. checkups. This is what happened to me. Mothers it is perfectly alright to focus in on our own health. I am learning the hard way, and yes shingles are so delightful. If you start to have a rash around your waistline, go into the Dr. Most likely it is Shingles, and not just a bug bite you thought happened while vacationing in Pine AZ. I will now be focusing on changing my wardrobe to ALL dresses or anything that never has to hit the waistline. I can not complain to long, (well for a minute maybe). I still feel completely blessed in far to many ways to let this make a dent in my life. If you have know idea like i did what Shingles are, have a read.... I am sure you all know someone, most likely a grandparent that has had this fun, horrible infection. So it goes to show I am beyond my years. I should be getting this at the age of 50 and above.... I just have to laugh at the situation and carry on.

What is Shingles?

Shingles is a disease that affects nerves and causes pain and blisters in adults. It is caused by the same varicella-zoster virus that causes chickenpox. After you recover from chickenpox, the virus does not leave your body, but continues to live in some nerve cells. For reasons that aren’t totally understood, the virus can become active instead of remaining inactive. When it’s activated, it produces shingles.

Who Is at Risk?


Anyone with the varicella-zoster virus in their body can be at risk for getting shingles. Right now there is no way of knowing who will get the disease. But, there are things that make you more likely to get shingles.


Advanced age. The risk of getting shingles increases as you age. People have a hard time fighting off infections as they get older. The chance of getting shingles becomes much higher by age 70.
Trouble fighting infections. Your immune system is the part of your body that fights off infections. Age can affect your immune system. So can an HIV infection, cancer, cancer drugs, radiation treatments, or organ transplant. Even stress or a cold can weaken your immune system for a short time and put you at risk for shingles.


What Are the Symptoms of Shingles?


Most people have some of the following symptoms.
Burning, tingling, or numbness of the skin
Feeling sick—chills, fever, upset stomach, or headache
Fluid-filled blisters
Skin that is sensitive to touch
Mild itching to strong pain


Shingles follows a pattern. A few days after the tingling or burning feeling on the skin, a red rash will come out on your body, face, or neck. In a few days, the rash will turn into fluid-filled blisters. The blisters dry up and crust over within several days. The rash usually happens on one side of the body. Most cases of shingles last from 3 to 5 weeks.

Wednesday, September 10, 2008

Thoughts for My Day

In my industry I feel so fortunate and a huge abundance of joy listening and learning all that I do from my clients. There is always such heartache in the world and it is amazing to watch people grow and become so incredibly strong in there time of trial. Rarely do I express to many personal things on my blog but slowly I want to start remembering the thoughts that are so strong to me on particular days...



Teachings of Spencer W. Kimball

In His wisdom, God does not always prevent tragedy.
The daily newspaper screamed the headlines: “Plane Crash Kills 43. No Survivors of Mountain Tragedy,” and thousands of voices joined in a chorus: “Why did the Lord let this terrible thing happen?”
Two automobiles crashed when one went through a red light, and six people were killed. Why would God not prevent this?
Why should the young mother die of cancer and leave her eight children motherless? Why did not the Lord heal her?
A little child was drowned; another was run over. Why?
A man died one day suddenly of a coronary occlusion as he climbed a stairway. His body was found slumped on the floor. His wife cried out in agony, “Why? Why would the Lord do this to me? Could he not have considered my three little children who still need a father?”
A young man died in the mission field and people critically questioned: “Why did not the Lord protect this youth while he was doing proselyting work?”
I wish I could answer these questions with authority, but I cannot. I am sure that sometime we’ll understand and be reconciled. But for the present we must seek understanding as best we can in the gospel principles.
Was it the Lord who directed the plane into the mountain to snuff out the lives of its occupants, or were there mechanical faults or human errors?
Did our Father in heaven cause the collision of the cars that took six people into eternity, or was it the error of the driver who ignored safety rules?
Did God take the life of the young mother or prompt the child to toddle into the canal or guide the other child into the path of the oncoming car?
Did the Lord cause the man to suffer a heart attack? Was the death of the missionary untimely? Answer, if you can. I cannot, for though I know God has a major role in our lives, I do not know how much he causes to happen and how much he merely permits. Whatever the answer to this question, there is another I feel sure about.
Could the Lord have prevented these tragedies? The answer is, Yes. The Lord is omnipotent, with all power to control our lives, save us pain, prevent all accidents, drive all planes and cars, feed us, protect us, save us from labor, effort, sickness, even from death, if he will. But he will not.
We should be able to understand this, because we can realize how unwise it would be for us to shield our children from all effort, from disappointments, temptations, sorrows, and suffering.
The basic gospel law is free agency and eternal development. To force us to be careful or righteous would be to nullify that fundamental law and make growth impossible.6
With an eternal perspective, we understand that adversity is essential to our eternal progression.
If we looked at mortality as the whole of existence, then pain, sorrow, failure, and short life would be calamity. But if we look upon life as an eternal thing stretching far into the premortal past and on into the eternal post-death future, then all happenings may be put in proper perspective.
Is there not wisdom in his giving us trials that we might rise above them, responsibilities that we might achieve, work to harden our muscles, sorrows to try our souls? Are we not exposed to temptations to test our strength, sickness that we might learn patience, death that we might be immortalized and glorified?
If all the sick for whom we pray were healed, if all the righteous were protected and the wicked destroyed, the whole program of the Father would be annulled and the basic principle of the gospel, free agency, would be ended. No man would have to live by faith.
If joy and peace and rewards were instantaneously given the doer of good, there could be no evil—all would do good but not because of the rightness of doing good. There would be no test of strength, no development of character, no growth of powers, no free agency, only satanic controls.
Should all prayers be immediately answered according to our selfish desires and our limited understanding, then there would be little or no suffering, sorrow, disappointment, or even death, and if these were not, there would also be no joy, success, resurrection, nor eternal life and godhood.
“For it must needs be, that there is an opposition in all things … righteousness … wickedness … holiness … misery … good … bad. …” (2 Nephi 2:11.)
Being human, we would expel from our lives physical pain and mental anguish and assure ourselves of continual ease and comfort, but if we were to close the doors upon sorrow and distress, we might be excluding our greatest friends and benefactors. Suffering can make saints of people as they learn patience, long-suffering, and self-mastery. …


Chapter 9: Forgiving Others with All Our Hearts
Teachings of Presidents of the Church: Spencer W. Kimball

Many people, when brought to a reconciliation with others, say that they forgive, but they continue to hold malice, continue to suspect the other party, continue to disbelieve the other’s sincerity. Mere words avail nothing. “For behold, if a man being evil giveth a gift, he doeth it grudgingly; wherefore it is counted unto him the same as if he had retained the gift; wherefore he is counted evil before God.”

Saturday, September 6, 2008

Off to Utah. Bye Bye Hayley and Dad

Cash will miss you so much and be a little confused to where you went, so sad

We all know you will miss your mom terribly! Who will cook you those yummy healthy meals now?


Megan's car was so full

So wonderful to see my Aunt and Uncle Stewart for a couple of hours before they flew back to St. George

Hayley and Megan we wish you the best of luck! Now we don't want any beauty school dropouts



Date Night With Mom

I loved the photo booth at the reception, great idea!


The twins were my date for a reception that night. They had a great time and told me that they were going to start coming with me to all receptions. The candy table was a HUGE hit.

Thursday, September 4, 2008

This Boy! Patience in All Things

Trying to be innocent

Running from mom

Throwing a tantrum, not my Cash....
Stay still for a moment my little one

Have a Birthday, a Wedding Reception, or Get Asked to Homecoming. There Needs to be More Happiness in the Air!

We are crazy when we celebrate birthdays!!!!

Lighting candles does takes serious concentration


Cash is loving the birthday candles

Flowers by Roman


What a sign, Jane!

Who looks excited?

Rissa got asked to Homecoming. Oh to be young again . . .

Great friends from my old ward supporting Megan Merill's reception.
Noah and Lincoln's friends, Riley and Maggie

Darling Lindsey and kids. Cutest fam!

Riley and Noah. Love all these kids!


Wednesday, September 3, 2008

Happy Birthday Mother.......We Love and Adore You!




What? It's my birthday! Let the festivities began